Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Would you consider yourself a good, average, or poor chess player? Just trying to get an idea of whether this was a feat or not on her part.

I consider myself to be an average chess player. I can see stuff, and plan things, but I don't see all the moves. I'm currently trying to crush the hopes and dreams of this guy I know from my old church who really enjoys chess (and is not bad at it, I lose to him about 35% of the time)...right now I've beaten him 8 times in a row but looking to beat my old record of 10 games in a row. Which I've told him, just to rub salt in the wound. I think I've got the ninth game in the bag (we've got three games going on at once right now), one of the other two games is looking reasonable, and the third is up in the air right now.

I wouldn't say I'm great, maybe barely above average. I once beat a guy who comes to a bar on campus while I was under the influence.

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Absolutely go. I too, was going to recommend you find your own lodgings while in the area. If things go well, you can stay with her, but don't make that your primary place of slumber unless it goes that way. Very cool of her to split the airfare. This shows her genuine interest in just wanting to see/spend time with you. Never miss an opportunity to travel; even, or especially in a situations such as this. Go. Have a great time (or not) but either way go live life, enjoy different experiences (regardless of the reason) and come report back to us old people. We may be the e-mentors, but we also live vicariously through you good sir. It's a symbiotic relationship.

I'm sure I've posted it on here before, but I had a hotel companion for a while when I traveled to Nashville for work. Met her at a bar in Nashville going solo for dinner one night. Each week I spent Tue, Wed and Thur in Nashville. For 3 months after, she came and stayed at my hotel every week. It was great and she was awesome. I hate that we grew apart. It also didn't hurt that she was in the 2003 hooters calander.....sigh....6' tall, long, lanky, dark brown hair, blue eyes.....ugh.

Appreciate the insight man!
That's what ive been thinking too, it'd be nice to get out of the midwest even if for 3-4 days. I'm trying to arrange stuff I can do if I end up going all by myself, stuff like car meets and whatnot. Once I dial that in I'm going to buy the ticket and fly out I think.

I don't know though, it really doesn't feel "real" that I'm actually considering traveling so far to see someone. It's not a thing where I'll back out at the last second but something just doesnt sit right.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

I wouldn't say I'm great, maybe barely above average. I once beat a guy who comes to a bar on campus while I was under the influence.



Appreciate the insight man!
That's what ive been thinking too, it'd be nice to get out of the midwest even if for 3-4 days. I'm trying to arrange stuff I can do if I end up going all by myself, stuff like car meets and whatnot. Once I dial that in I'm going to buy the ticket and fly out I think.

I don't know though, it really doesn't feel "real" that I'm actually considering traveling so far to see someone. It's not a thing where I'll back out at the last second but something just doesnt sit right.

Most things in life don't sit right. If I had not followed through with plans that didn't feel right, I would have missed out on so many experiences in life. Even the bad times and tough experiences I took something away from. You either gain new experiences and memories or it becomes a learning lesson of what not to do next time. Both experiences can be a positive life lesson depending on your perspective.

[213e90n51]

Originally Posted by Tornet

I'm a lucky one, because we are together with my wife for 6 years and I may say it's my first and true love. Of course, I had some experience in bad dates, but they were many years ago.
My worst relations were with a girl, who was a cheerleader and (as I understood after all) she hadn't any experience with any guys except me. She acted with me really strange. I mean one day she was shouted at me because she was sure I infected her with some kind of disease and asked me to pay her medical bills. In fact, the only argument she had was 'I kissed you several days ago and now I'm sick'. I'm still sure that I was absolutely healthy man and no way I could infect her with anything really bad.

i wouldve walked like a hunchback and blame her you made my spine sore after sucking the cream out if me. tell her your cream was the juice for the spine!

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by Jordan's World

Man, I can't believe this didn't work out. From what you've posted on here, you sound like a really chill dude.

Keep your head up though, once COVID is over, the pent up demand should work in our favor!

I swear this woman is trying to drive me insane! Last night we were texting and she asks what I'm doing for my birthday (in about 2 weeks). I have no plans so she invited me over for dinner which is nice. I ask the dress code and she says "your favorite pajamas"!?!?!

I don't wear any! Should I go naked and try my luck?

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by dinonz

I swear this woman is trying to drive me insane! Last night we were texting and she asks what I'm doing for my birthday (in about 2 weeks). I have no plans so she invited me over for dinner which is nice. I ask the dress code and she says "your favorite pajamas"!?!?!

I don't wear any! Should I go naked and try my luck?

100% you should text back and say that's normally your birthday suit, but you'll try to rustle up a pair of actual pajamas this time. Just to see what she says back.

But no, pretty sure she doesn't want to see you naked while trying to eat something. That might be after, but can pretty much guarantee it won't be during the process of eating.

Ha ha ha I love the drama this woman is putting you through. Mostly because it isn't me on the receiving end. So I can just sit back and enjoy the next episode - "The Kiwi strikes back". Does she like kiwi's by the way - might be a sign? You can seque in to yourself depending on her response - she might appreciate the intellectual banter.

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

100% you should text back and say that's normally your birthday suit, but you'll try to rustle up a pair of actual pajamas this time. Just to see what she says back.

But no, pretty sure she doesn't want to see you naked while trying to eat something. That might be after, but can pretty much guarantee it won't be during the process of eating.

I told her I'd get a leopard print onsie and wear it while driving over in the Diablo. Sadly I have no idea if I will have the car back by then - it's been at a restoration shop for about 6 weeks and they still haven't matched the paint to their standards. Might be months lol.

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by dinonz

I told her I'd get a leopard print onsie and wear it while driving over in the Diablo. Sadly I have no idea if I will have the car back by then - it's been at a restoration shop for about 6 weeks and they still haven't matched the paint to their standards. Might be months lol.

I edited my post - try the kiwi approach too. Not necessarily what I said, expand on it and have fun with it.

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

I edited my post - try the kiwi approach too. Not necessarily what I said, expand on it and have fun with it.

She likes me as a friend and no more, so I'll just go with that and enjoy my evening.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by dinonz

I swear this woman is trying to drive me insane! Last night we were texting and she asks what I'm doing for my birthday (in about 2 weeks). I have no plans so she invited me over for dinner which is nice. I ask the dress code and she says "your favorite pajamas"!?!?!

I don't wear any! Should I go naked and try my luck?

Quite interesting. She isn't done with you sir. I normally do well with picking up on intent.....this one has me baffled. Everything you state comes across as she is interested, but then you go an to say that she isn't. Truly conflicting. Go find you some nice pj's but not the typical stuff. Find something comfy and laid back. Do not go the route of what i refer too as old school pajamas (i.e. matching top and pants). The only way these are cool is if you get a set, give her the top to wear with no pants and you wear the pants with no shirt. Otherwise, find you a pair of classy pj bottoms and plain white v-neck t-shirt. Plain, simple, classy and not overdone. You also need to show up with a nice bottle of wine. Looking forward to the culmination of this evening in 2 weeks.

Originally Posted by dinonz

She likes me as a friend and no more, so I'll just go with that and enjoy my evening.

Somehow, i don't feel this is the case here. Just a hunch.

Originally Posted by Joekerr

100% you should text back and say that's normally your birthday suit, but you'll try to rustle up a pair of actual pajamas this time. Just to see what she says back.

But no, pretty sure she doesn't want to see you naked while trying to eat something. That might be after, but can pretty much guarantee it won't be during the process of eating.

Ha ha ha I love the drama this woman is putting you through. Mostly because it isn't me on the receiving end. So I can just sit back and enjoy the next episode - "The Kiwi strikes back". Does she like kiwi's by the way - might be a sign? You can seque in to yourself depending on her response - she might appreciate the intellectual banter.

Panty Joe dropping some knowledge. I have to say, I enjoy this bit of drama myself and for the exact same reason. I think she may be toying with dino because she knows she has him where she wants him.

[UncleWede]

Re: PJs

Do I need to post a Hefner photo????

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by UncleWede

Re: PJs

Do I need to post a Hefner photo????

I'm sure 213 would appreciate it.

[upstatedoc]

Originally Posted by dinonz

She likes me as a friend and no more, so I'll just go with that and enjoy my evening.

dude you should be getting laid like a rug

[BimmerDimmer6]

Originally Posted by dinonz

She likes me as a friend and no more, so I'll just go with that and enjoy my evening.

Are you a simp? Be honest...

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Quite interesting. She isn't done with you sir. I normally do well with picking up on intent.....this one has me baffled. Everything you state comes across as she is interested, but then you go an to say that she isn't. Truly conflicting. Go find you some nice pj's but not the typical stuff. Find something comfy and laid back. Do not go the route of what i refer too as old school pajamas (i.e. matching top and pants). The only way these are cool is if you get a set, give her the top to wear with no pants and you wear the pants with no shirt. Otherwise, find you a pair of classy pj bottoms and plain white v-neck t-shirt. Plain, simple, classy and not overdone. You also need to show up with a nice bottle of wine. Looking forward to the culmination of this evening in 2 weeks.



Somehow, i don't feel this is the case here. Just a hunch.



Panty Joe dropping some knowledge. I have to say, I enjoy this bit of drama myself and for the exact same reason. I think she may be toying with dino because she knows she has him where she wants him.

She said she didn't want to mix business and personal, and I am a client of hers. Yet she invites me to her house wearing PJs for a birthday dinner! I have some black satin PJs as a backup, which I could swap out the top for a white T quite easily. I don't think I could pull off the "here - you wear the top" thing.

I think the latter comment is right though - she's playing with me, because she knows she can.

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by BimmerDimmer6

Are you a simp? Be honest...

I probably am

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

dude you should be getting laid like a rug

Nope - just walked over

[sygazelle]

Originally Posted by dinonz

She said she didn't want to mix business and personal, and I am a client of hers. Yet she invites me to her house wearing PJs for a birthday dinner! I have some black satin PJs as a backup, which I could swap out the top for a white T quite easily. I don't think I could pull off the "here - you wear the top" thing.

I think the latter comment is right though - she's playing with me, because she knows she can.

Having been married for decades, I'm certainly know expert on current dating protocol, but I do know that boys will be boys and girls will be girls. If I were in your situation AND I wanted to take it to the next level, I would come right out and say I wanted a physical relationship and ask her if she wants one too. Her answer will be 1) It's about time you made a move and she will jump your bones, 2) You're my client and I could lose my job, and then she says screw it and jumps your bones, or 3) You're my client and I could lose my job and you respect that and cool it down and quit messing with each other's heads. All of these options are better than the game that's currently going on.

[BimmerDimmer6]

Originally Posted by dinonz

I probably am

I still say you just show up at her place naked.

No talk just cock.

[Jordan's World]

Originally Posted by dinonz

I swear this woman is trying to drive me insane! Last night we were texting and she asks what I'm doing for my birthday (in about 2 weeks). I have no plans so she invited me over for dinner which is nice. I ask the dress code and she says "your favorite pajamas"!?!?!

I don't wear any! Should I go naked and try my luck?

Happy early birthday!

And dude, she freaking wants you. It's so obvious from what you've told us thus far, lol.

[213e90n51]

Originally Posted by dinonz

I probably am

eat some roast duck over rice with watercress then just drive the bmw up your favorite road and grab a cigarette and sit on the guardrail facing your e90.

[upstatedoc]

Originally Posted by 213e90n51

eat some roast duck over rice with watercress then just drive the bmw up your favorite road and grab a cigarette and sit on the guardrail facing your e90.

This will not get him laid.

[Jordan's World]

Originally Posted by 213e90n51

eat some roast duck over rice with watercress then just drive the bmw up your favorite road and grab a cigarette and sit on the guardrail facing your e90.

^ I'm still convinced this guy fucks ^