To follow up on my last couple posts, I got the wheels and they fit perfectly!
As a reminder, this is a 2003 3.0 6-speed on stock suspension. Wheels are Aodhan LS002 in 19x8.5 F and 19x9.5 R +35 all around. Tires are Firestone Firehawk Indy 500 in 225/40/19 and 255/35/19. They're an inch taller than stock for a non-M, but the same overall diameter as M's. IMO they fill out the arches beautifully at stock height, and still maintain a decent sidewall to keep the comfort up.
Only issue I've had is a slight rub on the front wheel well plastic on the wheel well lip at about the 10 o'clock position. It will be a very easy fix with a slight trim. Anyways, I'm pretty stoked on them! Most likely will get a coating of black plasti dip in the not too distant future.