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      04-28-2016, 07:50 PM   #12
DaveJB
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Set the precedent now. At some point you setup a joint account for the shared expenses and keep your own bank account for your own stuff. My money, my stuff.

I mean it, I'm VERY happily married and this is what we do (I'm not saying it's what makes us happily married... but it does make ME happily married, LOL). I told her before we got married that I spent 25 adult years trying to get my shit together and now that I have I'm not about to have to ask someone if I can buy something. NOT GOING TO ASK PERMISSION AS A GROWN ASS MAN. PERIOD. END OF SENTENCE.



PS: I realize you didn't say "ask for permission..." but wanted to help you out since you're not yet married.

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