thanks everyone for your feedback!
I decided to keep my car, I was literally a signature away from actually buying a silver coupe instead of the E89 and looked at my car long and hard and decided id like to keep it, buying the coupe id have to start over and the E89 did not have all I wanted and if im going to spend the cash I want it perfect.
in the end I could not give my baby away, had my wife drive the car around in the parking lot and seeing the car in motion reminded me why I love it so much.
